Alright I seem to have a big habit of saying stupid/doing stupid things to make people I have crushes avoid me so look the title says before I mess up again I want to ask your advice. (Women's advice would be the best but if their are guys who can tell me what not to do more the appreciated.)
So if you can tell me some things not to do it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks everyone.
Fly on. Fly free,
Avian Fang
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Girls want guys who can look them in the eye and talk TO them, not AT them, and good listening skills help too, because no one wants to find out they were talking about something important to them and no one even heard. (Not saying that you do this, just random advice.) Also, be just friends for a while at first. You don't have to tell her you're just friends, and whatever you do NEVER tell your friends you're just friends with her if you want to be more than friends, or else she'll think you mean that you don't like her as more than friends--because she will find out whatever you say about her. If she says to her friends that you two are "just friends", that probably means that she likes you too, unless she tells YOU that you two are just friends. Then it would be more complicated to say whether she liked you as more or not.
Also, ask questions about her and tell her things about you in equal intervals--not all the focus on her at once, and not all on you either, but ask as many questions as you answer. If she doesn't ask you questions, just tell her something about yourself so she knows something about you. And you'll want to pay attention if certain topics make her uncomfortable--like thinking about college, or projects, or school, or whatever.... She probably doesn't want to talk about something if she touches her ear, head, back of her neck, or messes with her hair in a nervous-looking way. A good way to avoid uncomfortable subjects is to ask a question that has more than one answer to it, so you can ask follow up questions, especially if it's a subject that doesn't focus specifically on one of you but you both can relate to. Finding something she's interested in then bringing up that subject is good, because then she'll have opinions on it.
And the last piece of advice I can give you is that if you want to say something, just directly say it. Don't ever give hints just because you're worried about what she'll say if you just say something. It is too confusing. (Oh, but make sure not to tell her everything about yourself, or else she won't have a chance to get to know you as an individual.)
That was a ton of stuff.... It's enough to help just a little though, I guess.
~me
um... well advice....
1. Look the person in the eyes smile or wink then look away.
2.If they look at you every few moments then they like you.
3.If a girl says they hate you they don't mean it.
4.Don't talk dirty in front of her.
5.If you know someone likes you and they ask you out but you don't fancy them don't go out with her to make her feel better.
6. Don't go out with other people to make her jealous or to get over her.
7. Don't ask her out as a joke but secretly hope that she'll say yes.
8. If her friend asks you if you would go out with the person you like (she'll name like 4 or 5 people before she gets to her friends name), don't lie because her friend probably asked her to ask you.
9. If she asks you who you fancy and you fancy her tell her then.
10. Walk her to her lessons or home and ask lots of questions about her.
11. If your playing dares with her and she says who would you rather go out with and names 3 people her included say her (if you fancy her).
12. Give her your phone number or msn.
13.If she looks at you all the time in your eyes shes waitin for you to ask her out.
14. Girls hardly ever ask out boys.
15. Ask her out on her own or she'll think your joking.
16. um.. well don't keep it a secret that your going out.
17. Ask HER out on a date not the other way round.
18. BE YOURSELF.
hope this helped and i hope you can return the favour i want know how to ask a boy out from a boys piont of view.
RaChEL
THANK YOU SO MUCH. I will give you all the help I can.
1. Be yourself also
2. Be friends with the guy first
3. MOST Men are oblivious to subtle hints. So Most times you have to be fairly open
4. If you really want to ask him out just do it and hope for the best.
5. I really don't know what else to say guys are not very hard to please so be yourself have fun and don't be overly controlling.
Sorry if this didn't help.
Avian Fang
i'm glad it helped thanks for the advice too it hepled
RaChEl
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